ü Domestic violence
Domestic abuse, also known as intimate partner abuse, refers to a pattern of abusive conduct employed by one spouse to acquire or retain power and control over another partner. Persons of all genders are responsible for these acts of violence and coercion against people of all genders.
ü Domestic Violence: Types
Ø Physical abuse.
Here, a person suffers acts of violence including slapping, stabbing, punching, abusing drugs, choking, and even shooting. It's not necessary for this damage to be severe; it might be mild.
Ø Emotional abuse.
This abuse, which can come in the form of insults, criticism, or humiliation, can destroy your sense of self-worth. This happens frequently in relationships, such as those between siblings, lovers, etc. The relationship may become exceedingly coercive if there is emotional abuse.
Ø Sexual assault.
It also covers sexual harassment in addition to rape and sexual assault. Gender violence of this nature transcends abuse. You are being sexually abused, for instance, if you are compelled not to utilize the contraceptive method.
Ø Financial abuse.
It can come in a variety of shapes. For instance, the husband could stop the wife from going to school, working, or even leaving the house. However, this is less damaging than physical or sexual abuse. Financial abuse may be noticeable if the victim is financially reliant on their relationship since you are then at their whim.
Ø Psychological abuse.
It is the form of abuse where threats are made. Common instances include forcing the victim to stay at home, forbidding them from speaking to others without their consent, emotional blackmailing, etc. The victim is made to feel alone, and different methods of instilling dread are used to mentally damage him or her.
ü What Consequences Come from Domestic Violence?
Domestic abuse may have a long-term negative impact on a woman's physical and emotional health. Children, families, and even entire towns are also impacted by the abuse, in addition to women. Some instances are as follows.
Ø Post-Traumatic stress disorder.
This refers to the mental health condition that manifests after a scary experience. Anxiety, nightmares, flashbacks, and unrestrained thoughts are some of the typical symptoms.
Ø Depression.
Depression is one of the main consequences of violence. There is more to it than merely passing melancholy. Long-lasting melancholy, changes in appetite, unexplainable sobbing, a sense of helplessness, and a lack of energy, pleasure, and interest in anything are all possible side effects. It may also have an impact on a person's mindset and decision-making skills. In extreme circumstances, it may even lead to suicide attempts.
Ø Disassociation.
Disassociation occurs when a person isolates themselves from the outside world and seems detached even though they are present in social situations. They can frequently be seen daydreaming. It can become chronic since it makes it difficult for a person to perform their actual job duties.
ü Domestic violence characteristics include:
Ø Physical Abuse
Physical violence doesn't necessarily leave lifelong scars or harm:
• Biting, grasping, scratching, or spitting.
• Pushing and shoving.
• Punching and slapping.
• Throwing things at you in an effort to harm or frighten you.
• Destroying valuables or sentimental items.
• Assaulting your children, animals, or threatening to do so.
• Interfering with your sleep habits to make you feel worn out.
• Burning.
• Strangling.
• Using a weapon to assault or threaten to attack.
• Any threats against you or attempts on your life.
Ø Psychological and Emotional Abuse
Your spouse may misuse your emotions or psychological stability in order to exert control over you or hurt you emotionally. It may be said or unspoken:
• Using demeaning language, making fun of others, intimidating them, and making humiliating gestures.
• Standing or yelling in your face is a scary move.
• Controlling your kids.
• Directives about what to do or prohibited locations.
• Giving little weight to what you have to say.
• Interrupting, changing the subject, failing to listen or reply, and using twisted language.
• Disparaging you in front of others.
Ø Harassment and stalking
In relationships, stalking and harassment can occur when an abusive spouse or ex continues to demand your attention despite your requests for no contact:
• Paying you unauthorized visits or sending unauthorized communications (voicemails, text messages, emails, etc.).
• Following you, including putting GPS tracking software without your knowledge or agreement on your phone or automobile.
• Constantly monitoring your welfare.
• Making you seem foolish in public.
• Ignoring requests to leave.
